Perineal massage you’ll actually do

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The tool shaped to reach around the bump, so you can do it yourself.

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  • 50,000+ Used it to prepare for birth.
  • 700+ reviews

Everything designed to help you stick with your perineal massage routine.

  • Reaches where you can'tAngled to get around a third-trimester belly, with no twisting or straining.
  • Less strain on your wristThe easy-hold handle fits comfortably in your palm, so your wrist doesn’t do all the work.
  • Keep oil off your handsThe built-in oil channel keeps the oil where you need it, with less mess.
  • A more natural feelThe thumb-shaped tip feels natural and follows the U-shaped motion of perineal massage.
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Every Perimom is finished by hand, one at a time.

Every Perimom is checked under a lamp, then polished and cleaned by hand before it goes in the box, so the surface that touches you is completely smooth.

Your comfort deserves nothing less.

Each Perimom perineal massage tool inspected by hand under a magnifying lamp

Two ways to start.

Both come with the free guided app. Add to cart right here.

  • The essential
    €35,99

    Perimom Perineal Massage Tool

    The curved tool on its own, if you already have an oil you like.

    • Easy to Reach around your bump
    • Smooth finish design
    • Less Mess
    484 reviews
  • Sale
    €44,99

    Perimom Perineal Massage Tool & Perineal Massage oil

    The device and our almond oil, made to work together.

    • The Complete Perineal Massage Kit
    • Made to Work Together
    • Easy From Start to Finish
    484 reviews

You've got this. We've got you.

The free Perimom app is with you every step of the way. With guided audio sessions, a personalized plan that follows your pregnancy week, and progress tracking to help you stay consistent.

No guesswork. No going it alone. Just you, getting ready for birth.

Your personal perineal massage trainer. Free on iOS, Android .

Perimom Perineal Massage Trainer app with weekly guided perineal massage sessions

Made by a midwife, for the women she kept meeting.

Again and again, Vered Dalal met women in their final weeks who wanted to prepare with perineal massage but couldn't reach, or felt awkward asking a partner. So she designed the tool she wished she could hand them.

Vered DalalMidwife, Doula & Founder of Perimom

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Vered Dalal, midwife and founder of Perimom, with the perineal massage tool

Loved for being easy to actually use

  • So incredibly grateful

    “I am so incredibly grateful for this device! It has made perineal massages so much more convenient and significantly easier to do by myself. I recommend the Perimom to all of my mama friends!”

    — M. H.
  • Great product

    “I wish I had found this in my first pregnancy! It is easy to use and comes with instructions, the oil comes with a pump which is really handy to avoid mess. The shipping was really fast too.”

    — Milly C.

Questions women ask us

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How soon can I get Perimom?

We ship from our own local warehouses in the US, UK, Australia and Europe, so your order gets to you quickly, without the customs delays that come with shipping from abroad. Most orders arrive in 4-7 days, and the wand often arrives sooner than that. If you're in a hurry, expedited shipping (1-3 business days) is available in most countries.

Is perineal massage for me?

If your pregnancy is normal, then probably yes. Consult with your doctor or healthcare professional first, just to be sure.

When should I start?

Most professionals recommend you start perineal massage about the 34-35th week of pregnancy.

Can I use it if I can't reach on my own?

Absolutely! The Perimom was made for easy reach.

What massage oil can I use with Perimom?

You can use any natural and unscented massage oil of your choice. We recommend you use our almond oil for perineal massage.

Who shouldn't use Perimom

You should not use this device if you have any of the following:

  • If you are in a high-risk pregnancy group
  • If you have pre-term contractions
  • If you have been diagnosed as being at risk for pre-term labor
  • If you have placenta previa
  • If you have an active herpes outbreak or other vaginal or sexually transmitted disease
  • If you have vaginal bleeding
  • If you have a risk for placental abruption
  • If you are pregnant with multiple fetuses when the lower one is in breech presentation
  • If you have undergone a surgical procedure in the perineal region
Perimom perineal massage wand and Relax Sweet Almond Oil

Everything you need to start, in one box.

Everything you need to do perineal massage yourself, in the weeks before birth.

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